Five months later, a fairytale ending.
January 5th, 2009
Five months ago today, I came home from work with our eight-month-old Annie to find my healthy 32-year-old husband crawling around our home. So we left Annie with a friend and headed to the ER and within hours Russell was completely paralyzed below the waist. No bladder function, no moving of the toes…NOTHING! And yet no one could tell us why this was happening. Today we stand firm as a family on the why, this was just part of God’s plan for us.
In just five months, Russell has gone from complete paralysis, to independence in a wheelchair, to master of the loft strand crutches, to the distinguished gentleman with canes. And thanks to many prayers and the healing power of God, Russell is now navigating the world with no assisted devises, just his two strong legs.
What seemed like an overwhelming situation on August 4 was just the beginning of God’s larger, more important plan for us. The transition back to Kentucky for rehab was seamless. Frazier Rehab Institute (Frazier) had an opening for Russell as an inpatient which would guarantee him a spot in their cutting-edge Spinal Cord Medicine Program. My mother and stepfather drove one car behind us the entire way home with our suitcases, Russell’s wheelchair and our eldest daughter, Reagan (a 60-pound weimaraner). My father opened his home (and gave up his master bedroom) for us until we could move our things from DC. Then a friend happened to have a vacant home in Louisville which he offered us to live in for free. Our friends and colleagues packed our home in DC and my brother drove the 26-foot UHaul with all our belongings back to the bluegrass. And in November Russell’s employer granted a permanent hardship transfer to KY, while continually paying his salary through the volunteer leave program so his focus could be a full recovery.
Now I love planning, organizing and logistics, but there is no way I could have pulled off this one by myself! We have been blessed by the generosity of our family and dear friends. But not every family that has been affected by a spinal cord injury is as fortunate as ours, especially when it comes to getting into Spinal Cord Medicine Program at Frazier. Frazier has a lengthy waiting list of folks who are not currently able to access the technology, cutting-edge research, and incredible personnel to which Russell attributes his own recovery.
Early on, I told you to get ready that we were going to give back in a big way and you are cordially invited to participate.

With the vision and event planning expertise of our friend Emily Holubowich, the Red Carpet & Bluegrass Benefit was born. This event will put Frazier one step closer to expanding their facility and cutting down the long waiting list. Together we can give other patients, like Russell, access to the miracles being made at Frazier. I encourage you to visit the the Red Carpet & Bluegrass Benefit website (http://www.redcarpetbluegrass.com/) where you can buy tickets, become a sponor or make a charitable donation if you are unable to attend.
If you are interested in becoming an event sponsor or have additional questions about the event please contact:
Emily Holubowich
Benefit Chair
Phone: 202.557.9084
E-mail: emilyhevents@gmail.com
Web site: http://www.redcarpetbluegrass.com/
Blog: http://redcarpetbluegrass.blogspot.com/
So break out your tux or formal gown and join us and let’s give someone else a Frazier fairytale ending!






